This is the universal question that everyone wants to know. To score brownie points in bed and the relationship as well, it’s important to know what your partner wants. Conversations, spending time together can help partners get to know each other but nothing more works well for women than sex.

Sex is a very intimate action and people feel the most vulnerable after they’ve just had sex. This stamina-induced activity is not only good for the body, but also releases happy endorphins within the mind and the system. People are usually happy and flustered after they’ve had sex because the feeling is so great, that keeping it within yourself isn’t the most exciting thought. Sharing your feelings after the deed can be much better than you actually think.

Women have loved to chat after sex, since ages. Most do not like the silence that accompanies after it. So, just talking about anything seems the most viable option. In fact, researchers have found out that women dislike it when their partners stay mum after they have had sex. The reason? It makes them feel very distant or more like a ‘casual hookup’ which doesn’t require any emotional talks but just the physical deed.

Women like to converse more than men


Researchers have also concluded that the release of oxytocin in women means that they feel a greater sense of trust and connection after they orgasm as compared to men. It’s said that men’s higher level of testosterone suppresses the oxytocin in their body, thus resulting in lesser talk and connection after sex. Women who prefer to be in committed, emotional relationships face the brunt of silence-after-sex the most. They believe interacting after sex allows them to feel closer to the person. Talking about their hopes, desires, stresses induce a feeling of trust between both of them at such a vulnerable time. Studies have suggested that people who talk after sex tend to have more orgasms than others who don’t. Isn’t that a great reason to talk now?

According to women, if their partners finish off a night of passion with just a nod or a goodnight, they feel insecure and misdirected. At this time, they crave more attention than at any time of the day. For them, the after-sex was as important as the main act.

Sex is a universal feeling, it brings people closer


So yes, it’s true that women like to interact after they have sex. However, there are many others who prefer the opposite. It mostly depends on their preferences-whether they are opting for an emotional relationship or they want a casual one.

Vijayadashami, also commonly known as Dussehra is one of the most prominent festivals in India which conveys a strong message of the ‘victory of good over evil’. This year the festival will fall on October 25, which is exactly 21 days before Diwali.

The festival of Dussehra is celebrated with great pomp and show all across the country. While the ways of celebrating differ from state to state, so does the food preparations which are a major part of the celebration. From North to South and East to West, there are tons of delicacies that are especially made on the day of Dussehra which are not only mouth-watering but are also believed to bring luck.

The month of October marks the start of the festive season. While some people are excited about Navaratri’s long celebration, some are gearing up to celebrate Durga puja and Dussehra. Though things are different this year, excitement remains the same. The grand festivities of Navratri and Durga Puja are also the perfect occasion to sport your traditional look.

While you are finalizing your clothes and make-up, give your beauty look a glam touch with festive hairdos. From waves to buns, here’s how you can achieve these hairstyles at home:

Waves and braid
Give your soft glam waves a braid makeover like Alia Bhatt. After creating soft waves, create a centre-parting and take sections of hair from both sides. Lastly, braid each section and secure with bobby pins at the back.

The sleek bun
A perfect pick for festive wear, this hairstyle can suit any traditional attire. For hairdo, start by straightening your hair and create centre or side parting using a tail comb. Now, pull back your hair into a low ponytail at the nape of the neck. Twist the ponytail into a bun and secure it with some bobby pins. Lastly, spritz some shining spray for some extra shine just like Deepika Padukone.

Quick curls
For glam curls like Kareena Kapoor, try this hack to get curls in 10 minutes flat. To chive this hairdo, all you need to do is tie a high ponytail. Once you have created a ponytail, divide it into 2-3 sections and start curling section by section. Once done, get rid of the ponytail and flaunt your glam curls just like the actress.

·Twisted updo bun
For a relaxed bun look, start by twisting all the hair and place it over each other. Next, twist each strand by rotating and secure with bobby pins, repeat this for all the section of the hair. This is one of the easiest ways to achieve a twisted bun updo.

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